Wondering why committed love feels out of reach? Why you chase emotionally unavailable people but feel repelled by the ones who treat you well? This post breaks down 5 hard truths about how anxious and disorganized attachment, nervous system dysregulation, and past trauma sabotage real intimacy. Learn how to stop mistaking anxiety for chemistry and start creating the kind of relationship that actually feels safe, sexy, and secure.

Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Learn why your nervous system might be drawn to chaos, and what questions can help you attract love that is both passionate and committed.

Struggling to feel the attraction to kind, committed partners? This blog explores why healthy love can often feel "boring" when you have ROCD or fearful avoidant attachment, and how somatic therapy can help rewire your nervous system for secure, lasting connection, without sacrificing passion or excitement